Regular check-ins can be a powerful way to nurture your relationship, ensuring both partners feel heard, valued, and loved. These check-in questions for couples can help you stay connected and address any issues before they become significant problems. Use these questions to foster deeper understanding and intimacy in your relationship.
- How are you feeling about our relationship right now?
- Is there anything you’ve been wanting to talk about but haven’t yet?
- What’s something I did recently that made you feel loved?
- Is there a way I can support you better this week?
- How are we doing with balancing work and personal life?
- What’s one thing you’re looking forward to this week?
- How do you feel about the way we handle conflict?
- Is there anything you miss about the early days of our relationship?
- What’s something new you’d like to try together?
- How do you feel about our physical intimacy?
- What’s one goal you have for us as a couple?
- How can we improve our communication?
- Is there something I do that you find particularly annoying or frustrating?
- What are you most grateful for in our relationship?
- How do you feel about our spiritual connection?
- Is there a hobby or interest you’d like us to explore together?
- How do you feel about our social life and time spent with friends and family?
- What’s one way we can make our home feel more comfortable or welcoming?
- How do you feel about our financial situation and goals?
- Is there something you’d like to change about our routine or daily life?
- What’s one way I can be a better partner to you?
- How do you feel about our life goals and aspirations?
- Is there anything you’re worried about in our relationship?
- What’s something you’d like to celebrate or acknowledge together?
- How do you feel about the division of chores and responsibilities?
- Is there a recent experience that you’d like to share more about?
- What’s one thing you admire about me?
- How do you feel about our current level of closeness and intimacy?
- What’s something you’d like us to work on together?
- Is there a dream or wish you have for our future?
- How do you feel about the way we spend our free time?
- What’s one tradition you’d like to start or continue together?
- How do you feel about our support for each other’s individual goals?
- Is there something you’ve been struggling with that I might not be aware of?
- What’s something you’re proud of us for?
- How do you feel about the way we show affection to each other?
- Is there a place you’d like to visit together?
- How do you feel about our level of trust and honesty?
- What’s one way we can make our relationship more fun?
- How do you feel about our relationship with each other’s families?
- Is there something you’d like to learn or do that we haven’t yet tried?
- How do you feel about our physical health and wellness routines?
- What’s something you appreciate about our relationship?
- How do you feel about our future plans and dreams?
- Is there a book or movie you’d like us to experience together?
- How do you feel about our spiritual practices and growth?
- What’s one thing you’d like us to do more of together?
- How do you feel about the way we handle stress and challenges?
- Is there something you’d like to improve in our communication?
- What’s one of your favorite memories of us together?
- How do you feel about our emotional connection?
- Is there something you’d like to change about our lifestyle?
- What’s one way we can better support each other’s mental health?
- How do you feel about our sexual relationship?
- What’s something you’d like to celebrate about our journey together?
- How do you feel about our goals for personal growth?
- Is there a new activity or hobby you’d like to try together?
- How do you feel about our shared responsibilities and teamwork?
- What’s something you’d like to work on individually that I can support?
- How do you feel about our level of mutual respect and appreciation?
- Is there something you’d like us to pray about together?
- What’s one way we can enhance our daily interactions?
- How do you feel about our plans for the future?
- Is there something you’d like to apologize for or seek forgiveness about?
- What’s one way we can better manage our time together?
- How do you feel about our level of playfulness and joy?
- Is there something you’d like us to do to strengthen our relationship?
- How do you feel about our shared values and beliefs?
- What’s something you’d like to learn about me that you don’t know yet?
- How do you feel about the way we support each other’s dreams?
- Is there something you’d like to reflect on or discuss from our past?
- How do you feel about our overall happiness and contentment?
Regular check-ins using these questions can deepen your connection and help you both grow together in your relationship.
