As you prepare for marriage, it's important to center your relationship on faith and align your values as a couple. These 15 questions are designed to help you and your fiancé discuss your beliefs, spiritual goals, and how you plan to honor God in your marriage. Building a strong spiritual foundation together will help you navigate both the joys and challenges of married life.
- How do you see God’s purpose for our marriage, and what role do you believe faith plays in that?
- How do you think we can keep Christ at the center of our relationship throughout our lives?
- What are your expectations for attending church together and growing in our faith as a couple?
- How important is prayer to you, both individually and as a couple, and how can we make it a regular part of our relationship?
- What are your thoughts on serving together in ministry or community service as part of our married life?
- How do you see us making decisions as a couple that honor God’s plan for our future?
- How do you feel we should handle conflict in a way that reflects our faith?
- What role will reading the Bible and studying Scripture together play in our marriage?
- How can we support each other’s personal faith journey while growing together spiritually?
- What are your thoughts on tithing and giving, and how do you think we should manage our finances in a way that honors God?
- How do you believe we can protect our marriage from worldly influences and temptations?
- What are your views on raising children in the faith, and how do you envision us teaching them Christian values?
- How do you feel about accountability within our relationship, and how can we help each other stay grounded in our faith?
- How do you think we can reflect Christ’s love and grace in our interactions with one another?
- What do you believe is the best way for us to handle life’s challenges while trusting God and relying on His guidance?
Marriage is a beautiful opportunity to reflect God’s love and grow together in faith. As you prepare for this sacred union, take time to discuss these meaningful questions to ensure you're building a Christ-centered relationship.
Ready to dive deeper into faith-based conversations before you get married? Check out our online premarital course, where we explore topics like communication, intimacy, faith, and God’s plan for your marriage.