15 Questions to Ask Your Fiance - Christian Version

Discussing faith and spiritual goals is essential for a Christ-centered marriage. These 15 questions to ask your fiancé will help you align your Christian values and prepare for a strong, faith-filled marriage.

As you prepare for marriage, it's important to center your relationship on faith and align your values as a couple. These 15 questions are designed to help you and your fiancé discuss your beliefs, spiritual goals, and how you plan to honor God in your marriage. Building a strong spiritual foundation together will help you navigate both the joys and challenges of married life.

  1. How do you see God’s purpose for our marriage, and what role do you believe faith plays in that?
  2. How do you think we can keep Christ at the center of our relationship throughout our lives?
  3. What are your expectations for attending church together and growing in our faith as a couple?
  4. How important is prayer to you, both individually and as a couple, and how can we make it a regular part of our relationship?
  5. What are your thoughts on serving together in ministry or community service as part of our married life?
  6. How do you see us making decisions as a couple that honor God’s plan for our future?
  7. How do you feel we should handle conflict in a way that reflects our faith?
  8. What role will reading the Bible and studying Scripture together play in our marriage?
  9. How can we support each other’s personal faith journey while growing together spiritually?
  10. What are your thoughts on tithing and giving, and how do you think we should manage our finances in a way that honors God?
  11. How do you believe we can protect our marriage from worldly influences and temptations?
  12. What are your views on raising children in the faith, and how do you envision us teaching them Christian values?
  13. How do you feel about accountability within our relationship, and how can we help each other stay grounded in our faith?
  14. How do you think we can reflect Christ’s love and grace in our interactions with one another?
  15. What do you believe is the best way for us to handle life’s challenges while trusting God and relying on His guidance?

Marriage is a beautiful opportunity to reflect God’s love and grow together in faith. As you prepare for this sacred union, take time to discuss these meaningful questions to ensure you're building a Christ-centered relationship.

Ready to dive deeper into faith-based conversations before you get married? Check out our online premarital course, where we explore topics like communication, intimacy, faith, and God’s plan for your marriage.

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