"This or That" questions are a fun and simple way to learn more about your partner's preferences, quirks, and personality. These questions can spark light-hearted conversations and help you discover new things about each other. Here are 101 "This or That" questions for couples to enjoy.
Food and Drink Preferences
- Coffee or tea?
- Sweet or savory?
- Pizza or pasta?
- Chocolate or vanilla?
- Wine or beer?
- Ice cream or cake?
- Breakfast or dinner?
- Spicy or mild?
- Cook at home or dine out?
- Soda or juice?
Entertainment and Hobbies
- Movies or TV shows?
- Reading or writing?
- Music or podcasts?
- Comedy or drama?
- Beach or mountains?
- Concert or sports event?
- Dancing or singing?
- Board games or video games?
- Museums or parks?
- Swimming or hiking?
Travel and Adventure
- Road trip or flight?
- City or countryside?
- Hotel or Airbnb?
- Adventure or relaxation?
- Mountains or ocean?
- Summer or winter vacation?
- Guided tour or explore on your own?
- Camping or glamping?
- Historical sites or natural wonders?
- Solo travel or group travel?
Lifestyle and Daily Life
- Early bird or night owl?
- Neat or messy?
- Plan everything or go with the flow?
- Introvert or extrovert?
- Save or spend?
- Organized or spontaneous?
- Minimalist or maximalist?
- Homebody or social butterfly?
- Dogs or cats?
- Car or bike?
Fashion and Style
- Casual or formal?
- Sneakers or heels?
- Jeans or shorts?
- Sweaters or t-shirts?
- Hats or scarves?
- Gold or silver?
- Sunglasses or hats?
- Dress up or dress down?
- Bright colors or neutrals?
- Boots or sandals?
Technology and Gadgets
- Smartphone or tablet?
- Laptop or desktop?
- Text or call?
- Online shopping or in-store shopping?
- Streaming or cable?
- Social media or no social media?
- E-book or physical book?
- Digital planner or paper planner?
- Video games or board games?
- Smartwatch or traditional watch?
Personal Preferences
- Shower or bath?
- Chocolate or candy?
- Introverted activities or extroverted activities?
- Alone time or social time?
- Breakfast in bed or breakfast out?
- Hot coffee or iced coffee?
- Cooking or baking?
- Takeout or homemade meal?
- Long drive or short walk?
- Talking or listening?
Seasonal and Weather Preferences
- Spring or fall?
- Summer or winter?
- Rain or snow?
- Hot or cold?
- Sunny or cloudy?
- Snowboarding or skiing?
- Beach day or pool day?
- Fireplaces or bonfires?
- Leaf peeping or flower blooming?
- Rainy day or sunny day?
Relationships and Emotions
- Hugs or kisses?
- Holding hands or cuddling?
- Love letters or love texts?
- Serious talks or playful banter?
- Surprises or planned events?
- Public displays of affection or private moments?
- Date night out or date night in?
- Compliments or gifts?
- Acts of service or words of affirmation?
- Laughing together or crying together?
Future and Dreams
- Dream job or dream home?
- City life or country life?
- Stay up late or wake up early?
- Big family or small family?
- Long-term planning or living in the moment?
- Financial security or career satisfaction?
- Owning a business or working for someone else?
- Traveling the world or settling down?
- Renting or owning a home?
- Early retirement or working later in life?
- Living near family or living far away?
Exploring these "This or That" questions can lead to fun and enlightening conversations with your partner.